When tragedy strikes, people really do want to help. To offer some words of comfort, or wisdom, from their own experiences. Sometimes those words help, and are just the thing you need to get through it. And, sometimes those words rip the wound open before it can even start to heal. When I had a miscarriage, there were many people that wanted to help me, and offer anything they could. And, for that I will always be thankful. I couldn't have gotten through any of it, witho